Monday, May 12, 2014
Blog 5
While reading chapter 7 in the book, the section about Child maltreatment stood out to me most. Reading the first paragraph about the abuse to a 7 year old boy named Max made me sick to my stomach. How can anyone treat a child, let alone their flesh and blood that way? Unfortunately, child abuse and maltreatment happens everyday and seems to be increasing. I've always used or heard the terms child abuse and neglect, but never heard the term "Child Maltreatment" until reading this chapter. Child maltreatment comes in many forms: Physical Abuse, involving assault that leads to injuries including cuts, welts, bruises, and s broken bones. Sexual abuse, involving fondling, intercourse, or other sexual behaviors. Psychological abuse, involving ridicule, rejection, or humiliation. Neglect, in which children do not receive adequate food, clothing or medical care. The disturbing fact is that the frequency of child maltreatment is difficult to estimate because so many cases go unreported. According to the US Department of Health and Human Service (2008), approximately 1 million children annually suffer from maltreatment or neglect. About 60% are neglected, 15% are abused physically, 10% are abused sexually, and 10% are maltreated psychologically. Being a mother, these statistics are heart breaking to me. It's sad that the rate of child maltreatment is so high in the US especially since in many countries in Europe and Asia, have strong cultural prohibitions against physical punishment. In Sweden spanking is against the law. Therefore, countries that do not condone physical punishment tend to have lower rates of child maltreatment than the United States. (U.S. Department of State 2002) I found it interesting to learn that poverty is a social condition that seems to foster maltreatment. I feel like it's always been a stereotype that if you are poor you probably aren't that great of a parent or abuse your child but for different reasons than expected. When parents worry about whether they can buy groceries or pay rent, they are more likely to punish their children physically instead of making the extra effort to reason with them. Another particularly interesting thing I learned from reading this chapter was ego resilience. It denotes children's ability to respond adaptively and resourcefully to new situations and serves and as a protective factor. If I had unlimited funds and time, I would definitely put it towards Child Protective Services. I see too many stories on the news about CPS involved cases where the child ends up getting badly injured or dies. I feel like there should be more investigation and follow up with each case, and more consequences and treatment for the parents involved.
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I couldn't agree more! I think CPS should revise there current system to correct the cracks that's so many kids fall through! My sister is currently dealing with CPS. She got her daughter taken away due to drug use (among a few other things). My mother and I went through countless home visits and paperwork to be able to keep my niece with our family and not in foster care, my mother as the guardian and I am just a helper. But even to allow me to have my niece at my house unattended CPS had to come and make sure it was safe here and I would be comfortable stopping my sister from entering my home if I thought she were not in a good place mentally. I have a new found respect for CPS and the people who work there. They have a hard job! They see the worst things imaginable and still have to go to bed knowing it sometimes isn't enough. Many of the case workers come off and are depicted by others to be ruthless and cold. I strongly feel that that is what they have to do to be able to get through the day without breaking down in tears with every single interaction. The people I have met seem to truly want whats best for the child and the parent! They do an amazing amount to help the parent get back on track to be able to be a good parent and have their family back. CPS has paid for my sister to receive counseling, a six month inpatient treatment program with parenting classes, as well as paying for the gas for us to take my niece to visit her so as to foster a good bond between the two of them. The same services have been offered to my nieces father although he has not taken them up on any of them. I don't know that I could do what they do and keep any shred of sanity or trust in humanity. Even with all the hard work and commitment they each have to the children they protect there are just too many cases for them to handle. I feel they need more funding and manpower, stricter laws for offenders, and a better foster care program. I don't know what "better" would be but I do know the current system has a lot of flaws. Its horrifying to think about some of the emotional, and physical trauma many of these children face every day. Absolutely breaks my heart! I feel this is just as much a reflection of our values as a society as it is of a system that is underfunded and lacking the strength in its procedures needed to battle such a tremendous injustice. We as a community need to take a stronger stance against abuse of any sort but especially to those who often times do not have the voice to ask for help themselves. One unspoken "rule" amongst people my age is that you never call the cops or report someone. It is said to not be your place and you would be labeled a snitch. In some social groups and areas a label like that is liable to result in physical harm. I don't partake in this "rule" and find it to be ridiculous. I have lived in some very poor "ghetto" areas south of Seattle and have woken up many times at night hearing fights between couples with children screaming in the background and the first thing I did was call the police. Even though the CPS system is lacking and understaffed I still report every single case I see. We as a society need to be vigilant in sending the message that if you abuse your child you WILL be caught and prosecuted.
ReplyDeleteI had never heard the term "Child Maltreatment" this was a new term for me also. I agree it makes me sick to hear about child abuse of any kind. people who abuse children are cowards. children are precious and deserve to have every advantage in life that as parents we can give them.
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